One Doctor's Unusual
Show of Support
By
Dilshad D. Ali
It
was business as usual during St. Luke and Roosevelt Hospital Centers' daily
noon conference in
"Don't think I've forgotten to shave," he told the residents.
"There's a reason for this."
Fried has grown his beard to show his support for Muslims, to make a statement
that he would not tolerate anti-Muslim or anti-Arab sentiments. His physical
statement echoes a small, but growing trend nationwide of Americans growing
beards or wearing scarves to show support for Muslims.
Many hospitals in
Following the September 11th
"But I didn't think that was fair," says Fried. Then his wife
suggested he grow a beard himself.
It's not making any real difference, Fried says, but rather it is a show of
support. "People had gotten used to the way I look - clean shaven.
[Growing a beard] is a very visual thing, very striking. It's sort of
equivalent to the American tradition of a football coach shaving his head to
show support for his team."
Azeem Saeed, a first-year resident at St. Luke's/
Saeed, who also sports a beard, says he is not scared of any anti-Muslim
backlash though he experienced subtle racism immediately following the attacks.
One nurse asked him where he was from. "I said
Fried says he also heard of anti-Muslim comments from patients and people in
the streets after the attacks. He says the hospital discussed how to address
anti-Muslim sentiments every day following the incident. "The first day
one of my Egyptian residents mentioned he had had some comments from a patient.
Some of them mentioned getting shouted at [on their way to the hospital],"
he says.
Muhammad Faisal, another first-year resident, says one of his patients asked if
he was with Osama Bin Laden. Faisal said no. "Then the patient said to me,
'But you are Muslim ...' Like he meant that my being Muslim was bad
enough."
Fried says he will not tolerate such behavior from the hospital staff. But
patients are a whole other issue. "If it comes from the patients, it's an
upsetting thing. The best we can do is if it really becomes a problem is to
educate the patient," he says. "We have people on staff, people in
patient relations, who go in and try to educate patients if they have a problem
with their doctor."
More than anything, a unified front in support of Muslim doctors by the
hospitals is most important, Fried says. And his new beard is just a small way
to show such support. Faisal says Fried's gesture is another example of his
commitment to the well being of his residents. In the days following the
attacks, "Dr. Fried came to all of us saying we could page him at any
time, even 2 a.m., if we had any trouble," Faisal says. "I like such
people who are expressive."